BE YOUR OWN UNICORN

Sajna'sĀ Musings

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How To Find Your Worth Sep 26, 2023

My therapist spent years telling me I’m worthy. I never believed her. 

I think this is pretty common when we grow up feeling like we are not good enough. When we grow up around immature adults who haven’t dealt with their own trauma. When we grow up, knowing the love we have...

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Ego Or Open Heart Sep 26, 2023

I’ve been doing this exercise every time I’m in a state of conflict. 

Before I react, I ask myself, “Is my response from a place of ego or open heart?” Once I know the answer, I can respond instead of reacting.

The most tough part about this is finding the pause....

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How To Make Meditation A Habit Sep 26, 2023

Keep It Simple

I googled the word ‘meditation’ for the purpose of this blog post, and here’s what google says:

The action or practice of meditating. 

A written or spoken discourse expressing considered thoughts on a subject.

I liked the Merriam-Webster definition:

To engage...

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How To Bring Peace Into Any Relationship Sep 26, 2023

 ** If you are in a physically abusive relationship, please get help and try your best to leave.**

Family systems are complicated. I love talking to people I meet, and one thing I know for sure is, every family system has its own complications. 

Okay so, some of us have it...

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When Love Hurts Sep 26, 2023

**Mentions of self harm and dark intrusive thoughts, so maybe save to read it on a day you could use a good cry. 

Grief and Love are two sides of the same coin.

It’s born of the quote from Winnie the Pooh, “How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so...

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The Ripple Effects Of Kindness Sep 26, 2023

Growing up, kindness was not something I saw in my daily life. 

As a child, the kindness I witnessed around me was transactional or conditional. I remember only two mature adults from my teen years who were kind to me, with no ulterior motives. 

Meeting people who are kind ‘just...

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You Are What You Need Sep 26, 2023

I’m going through a challenging time. I’ve been here before. Struggles, grief, transitions are part of life’s suffering. That’s what makes it a life.

I’m more prepared for life’s challenges than I’ve ever been before. It’s still hard, but...

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How To Begin A Journaling Habit Sep 26, 2023

My journaling habit began thanks to the author, Julia Cameron. I was reading her book, “The Artist’s Way”, in which she talks about writing the morning pages. 

It’s a powerful book. I highly recommend it. It’s the book that made me realize I’m a...

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How To Become Uncontrollable Sep 26, 2023

On a warm Sunday in April 2021, we were in our backyard. My kid was having his cookies, and I was enjoying my chai beside him. 

I had gone away for a few days to finish my second fictional novel. I was holed up in an Airbnb in San Antonio in the host’s backyard. All I did was write and...

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Love: Conditional Vs. Unconditional Sep 26, 2023

Love is the second most important topic I’ve thought about, the first one being grief.

I’ve never known unconditional love until I became a mom. I feel unconditional love from my kid. I also feel unconditional love toward him.

It’s definitely the most magical existence on this...

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Letā€™s Talk Boundaries Sep 26, 2023

There’s this Hindi movie, “Taare Zameen Par,” it has the usual Bollywood dramatic touch to it, but it left an impression on me. It’s about a dyslexic boy and a teacher who helps him see that he’s enough. 

The scene that was memorable for me is this: the teacher...

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How To Manage The Overwhelm Sep 26, 2023

Let me take you through an average morning of mine. 

I wake up at 4.30am, it’s not easy to roll out of bed. Some days, I’ve to drag myself out of it, so by the time my feet hit the floor it’s 4.40am. I use the restroom, get dressed in my gym clothes, and sit to...

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